The Key to Happiness

What is it?

Relationships.

It's that basic. I would say "simple", but relationships are rarely simple. They are, in fact, basic and occur all across nature.

I've never realized that relationships really were the key. If you're reading this and disagreeing and thinking to yourself how you'd rather do your own thing and in general keep to yourself and avoid people--I was there too. I was perfectly content with choosing video games and animals over people. I'm sure you find relationships somewhere: with animals, on the internet, in video games (with others, or your own virtual alter ego), or in stories you write/read. I'm telling you from experience: you are only running from personal relationships to put them in impersonal areas. Regardless, relationship is involved.

Lately I've really noticed the importance of relationship. This has been over many years and many different areas.

Relationship is why I preferred one Bible study over another. One I had bonded with my members, but the other I didn't feel like I belonged and couldn't relate with the other girls.

My positive relationship with the President of an organization is why I agreed to be Secretary. However, now I don't have relationships with the new officer team. I don't feel included. I'm not happy there. I don't enjoy it anymore. Why? A lack of relationship.

My roommate prefers Nebraska to New Jersey. Why? The relationships with people here, even complete strangers.

I had always loved horses. Mostly because I could ride them and get thrills, but now I notice there is much more. The relationship is what gives me true joy in horses.

The relationships you build with your floormates/roommates is what builds a positive living environment there. A lack of relationship will lead to a disappointing and dreary environment.

Job satisfaction is highly influenced by relationships with coworkers and superiors.

Everyone wants to feel like they are a part of something. Everyone wants a meaningful relationship. Many people are dreaming about their future spouse. Your friends and family are probably some of the highest priorities in your life.

God designed relationship. God IS relationship in its very purest form! God desires relationship with us, not just a list of rules. Jesus displayed this. He built faith by creating relationships with his disciples and planned for them to do the same.

We learn through relationships. We make decisions based on relationships. We will measure our happiness at the end of our lives by the relationships we have built.

Now I've realized the true importance of relationships. I'm striving to make deeper and more meaningful relationships. I hope you see the value of relationships and how God created them as the ultimate way for his creation to interact with the world and Himself.

Dear Zeke,

I miss you. I was going to come see you this weekend, but I can’t because of the football game. I hope you are eating well and enjoying some fresh grass while it’s still yummy. I’m sorry I can’t be there to make your life interesting and I’m sorry I can’t spend as much time with you as you deserve.

I miss you more than you can believe! I miss having our partnership. Knowing that you’re always there and we can always get through stuff together and challenge each other. I miss how you’d teach me lessons about life and God. I miss how you’d always listen and make me feel better. I don’t have anyone in college that can be a partner like you. No one to share my thoughts with. No one to grow with. No one to learn from and teach simultaneously. No one to just hang-out together enjoying just being by each other.  No one to face challenges together.

I spent this weekend in the mountains. It was so pretty. The trails made me wish I was riding you. The carriage house made me just want to be around you. There were a lot of awesome people there. They’re amazing. But I haven’t bonded with them in a deep way like you. I miss our bond. I’m glad it’ll still be there despite the time and distance. It’s just hard now, not having it.

I rode another horse today. Don’t be mad, it didn’t mean anything. His name is Mike. He was black, and he made me miss you. He’s not really like you at all though. None of them have personality like you. None of them want to smell my face like you. None of them want to do exactly what I want. None of them can read my mind like you do.

I can’t wait to see you again. I’ve really grown to appreciate our bond. It really is unlike any other. You have no need to be jealous (even though I know you are the jealous type) because I don’t have a bond anywhere close to ours here in college. This is why you are my best friend.

I’ll be counting down the days until I get to see you again! Remember that you are my partner, but you belong to God! I named you Zeke because it means “God gives me strength” and I want you to live it out! Remember your life verse Philippians 4:13. Together we’ll glorify God!

Thanks for being my favorite boy and my best friend!

Love,

Your Rider, Your Partner for Life, Your Predator, Your Leader

Mak

~I Timothy 4:12~

My Broken Heart: A Call to Labor

I see thousands of people every day,

        just passing by,

        but my heart breaks.

They keep on living,

        slipping by, searching.

Not knowing what they need,

        not knowing they are prized.

So many dear ones that God loves,

        He calls them His children.

Yet they aren’t following Him,

        they don’t love Him.

Do they even know how much He loves them?

        How could they know?

No one is showing them God’s love,

        no one is loving them like Jesus does.

Who will help them experience God’s love?

I pray that God will use me,

        to be an envelope of His love,

        to act out His love by serving,

        to hold their hands

        and tell them they are beautiful children

        with a Father who loves them

        more than they can imagine.

There are so many.

        Can I do it alone?

I pray that God will send laborers

        to work alongside me,

        to love through action like Jesus,

        and teach them to do the same.

Will you answer the call?

        Be a laborer?

        Show them they are loved?

        Help heal my heart that breaks for them?

I pray that you will.